Noelle Moore | Supporting Pelvic Health Clients Through Infant Loss and Grief

[Lynn Schulte]

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Show Notes:

What happens when a patient walks into your pelvic health clinic carrying not only physical symptoms, but profound grief and trauma from pregnancy or infant loss?

In this powerful conversation, Lynn Schulte, PT, talks with Noelle Moore, founder of the Finley Project, about what providers need to understand when caring for families after loss – and how our presence, language, and hands-on care can make a lasting difference.

Key Discoveries from this Episode:​

• Why grief and trauma can show up in the physical body.
• The power of giving a client permission.
• How to communicate when you don’t know what to say.
• Why compassionate detachment matters for providers.
• Why grief isn’t linear – or finished after one session.
• The importance of listening to the whole body.
• Why ongoing support matters.

Clinical Takeaway​

For pelvic health practitioners, this episode is a reminder that our treatment room can become an important part of a patient’s healing experience after loss. The goal isn’t to fix grief. It’s to create enough safety, compassion, and permission for the patient to have their experience while receiving the physical care they need.

Frequently Asked Questions​

How can grief and trauma show up in the body?​

Grief and trauma aren’t experienced only as emotions – they can also have physical effects. Patients may notice changes in tension, sensitivity, or sensation in the C-section scar, pelvic tissues, or other areas of the body. For pelvic health providers, this is a reminder to listen to the whole body rather than assuming the pelvis is the only place trauma is expressed.

What can providers say or do when a patient is grieving?​

You don’t need the perfect words. Slowing down, acknowledging what happened, and simply being present can be deeply supportive. Small statements that give a patient permission to cry, rest, pause, or stop treatment can help her feel safe, seen, and heard. Compassionate detachment is also important: providers can hold space for grief without taking it into their own bodies or trying to carry it for the patient.

Does grief have a timeline, and what kind of support is needed?​

Grief isn’t linear, and it doesn’t necessarily end after one session – or even after many years. It can resurface unexpectedly, which is why ongoing support matters. Families may need a combination of physical, emotional, practical, and community support rather than simply a referral to counseling and a quick return to “normal.”

About the speaker​

Noelle Moore is the heart and strategic vision behind The Finley Project, a national nonprofit providing holistic support to mothers following the loss of an infant.

After the devastating loss of her newborn daughter, Finley, Noelle recognized the lack of practical support available to mothers navigating life after loss. She founded The Finley Project to bridge that gap, creating a holistic 7-step program that supports mothers from hospital discharge through long-term healing.

Based in Winter Park, Florida, Noelle serves mothers nationwide with compassionate, practical strategies for navigating trauma, grief, and healing.

The Finley Project Programs:

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More Than I’m Sorry Book and Care Guide:

Connect With Lynn​

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